Seven
years ago Pam Stenzel grew weary of hearing the phrase, NOBODY
TOLD ME!! After years of counseling young girls who found themselves
in crisis pregnancies, Pam began to realize that so many were
completely unaware of the risks involved with sexual activity,
and that many had never been told about all the consequences of
their choices. That was the inception of Pam's life as a speaker,
but Pam Stenzel's story started years earlier.
In
1964 a fifteen-year-old girl was raped, became pregnant, and decided
to carry her unborn child to term. Five months after the baby
girl was born, in an act of courage and love the young mother
provided her child a better environment by giving her to an adoptive
family. That child was Pam Stenzel. She is the oldest of 8 children
7 adopted
1 biological, and her extended family includes
38 adopted children in all.
Following her graduation from Liberty University with a degree in
Psychology, Pam moved to Minneapolis, MN where she began to work
with New Life Family Services, and young girls who were planning
to place their children for adoption.
Pam
was approached by a group of concerned parents, to develop a two-hour
program for the Rally for Life 1992, a conference on sexual abstinence.
She developed the program by mixing media and music, her own talk,
and the testimonies of young girls. The response of students,
parents and the community was so overwhelming that Pam began to
get numerous requests to speak all over the Midwest.
In
1993, Pam's talk Sex Has a Price Tag was produced as a video.
No one was prepared for the explosive response. Pam's speaking
requests were so numerous that she decided to go on the speaking
circuit full time. "Sex Has a Price Tag" has since been
translated into 11 languages, won the Charleston Film Festival
Award in 1995, and is currently used in the United States, Canada,
Mexico, Central and South America, Australia, Ireland, Europe,
the Ukraine, Romania, Poland, and throughout Africa.
In 1998 Vision Video and Gateway Films produced the film series
"Sex, Love and Relationships" in Santa Monica, California.
It won the Crown Award for Curriculum of the Year in November
1999.
Pam's
current videography includes: "Time To Wait For Sex,"
"Sex Has A Price Tag 2000," "Character Matters"
(a video for parents) "Sex, Love & Relationships,"
and "Take A Look In The Mirror" (a video for girls only).
She is also the Founder of Enlighten Communications, Inc., a organization focused and committed
to the betterment of children and families in America and around
the world. Enlighten offers a broad new model approach for those
desiring to embrace strong character in today's youth. Enlighten
empowers parents, youth leaders and educators to lead informed
discussions on sexual abstinence and the benefits it produces.
Pam
now travels both domestically and internationally, speaking to
over 500,000 teens a year. Surprisingly many of her requests to
speak come from teens themselves. She has been a guest on numerous
national TV and Radio programs, including appearances on Fox News
Network's "Hannity & Colmes Show," ABC Radio's "Sean
Hannity Show," "The Dr. Laura Show," CBN's "The
700 Club," and ABC Television's "Politically Incorrect
with Bill Maher."
Pam
Stenzel is a dynamic, charismatic, and educated expert on sex,
love and relationships. She understands the perils that young
people face as they make adult choices, and is dedicated to reviving
the character and integrity of today's youth.